6 secret desires in "that matter" of women, men should know to please her
Women have many secret desires in "that matter", they just don't dare to say it.
In “that matter”, men are often the ones who take the initiative, while women are often passive and follow their partner’s wishes. However, if women do little, their partner will easily feel that “making love” is boring and gradually lose interest in sex.
Moreover, this sometimes makes men unable to understand what their girlfriends want, feel, and desire, even thinking that they do not have any desires. But in reality, women have many secret desires in "that matter", they are just afraid to say it.
1. Foreplay a little longer
Before entering, women need to be stimulated to increase pleasure. If the guy skips the foreplay with passionate kisses, caresses, and affection and immediately goes into battle, she will definitely lose interest and even feel pain in her "private area".
Moreover, a full foreplay will help women feel respected and loved. Therefore, not only do they want foreplay, many women even want to prolong this moment a little longer.
The ideal time for foreplay is 18 minutes. To make both of you ecstatic and have memorable moments, guys, don't "rush the stage".
2. Like rhythm, continuity and no interruptions
Each person likes a different style of “lovemaking”, some women like it strong and passionate, others like it gentle. However, whether fast or slow, fierce or gentle, most women like their partner to maintain a rhythm, continuously and without interruption. Otherwise, they can easily lose interest, and “lovemaking” is not as perfect as expected.
3. Want to be proactive
Surely many women want to be the one to "take the reins" at least once, to take the initiative, to lead their partner to s**t. However, because of shyness, they only dare to think but not to do. They are afraid that if they take the initiative just a little bit, it will easily make their partner think they are a bad girl.
4. Don't just focus on the "breasts"
The “breasts” are the most sensitive and easily stimulated place during “that thing”, just a gentle caress or a hot kiss is enough to make women excited. However, many “greedy” women do not want to stop there.
They crave to be stimulated by their husband/boyfriend in many other places on their body such as the neck, ears, feet, etc. Therefore, guys, don't forget these sensitive areas on her body. She will be very surprised and more excited when you touch those places.
5. Language of love
Language when “making love” is very important, it can stimulate the sexual desire of both sexes, helping both people achieve pleasure more easily. In particular, if you talk outside the usual rules with each other, the effect will increase many times. Therefore, in addition to sweet words like “you are so beautiful today”, “you are so attractive”,… don’t be afraid to whisper to her the “dark” thoughts in your head for her, who knows, she might like it more.
6. “Love” outside of bed
Many couples only make love at night and in bed, but many bold girls want to try making love outside of bed. Changing the love environment will make her more easily aroused and "come to ecstasy" faster. Therefore, couples should occasionally "change the wind" in their married life, invite her to try making love in the living room or bathroom.
